Our Wandering Pack

Life on the road isn’t just about adventure—it’s about growth. It’s about learning to be comfortable with uncertainty, embracing the present moment, and finding peace in who we are, wherever we are.

If there’s one thing full-time travel has taught me, it’s that self-worth isn’t something we earn—it’s something we build, day by day, in the choices we make. This week in therapy, a few things really stuck with me, and I wanted to share them with you because I think they apply to more than just life on the road. They apply to anyone trying to live with more intention, more acceptance, and more joy.

1. Find Your Glimmers

We all know what triggers are—those moments that send us into stress, anxiety, or self-doubt. But what about glimmers? Glimmers are the little moments that spark joy, peace, or a sense of connection.

For us, glimmers are watching the sunrise with a hot cup of coffee outside the trailer. It’s the way Moia and Dakota look at us when they’re curled up after a long hike. It’s the quiet moments of stillness when we’re off-grid, feeling completely in sync with nature.

Glimmers are always there—we just have to train ourselves to notice them. And the more we look for them, the more self-worth becomes about the beauty of the now, not just what’s next.

2. I Don’t Say No Because I’m Busy—I Say No Because I Don’t Want to Be Busy

This one hit hard. We’ve all been guilty of saying, I’d love to, but I’m just so busy. But what if we flipped the script?

Busyness doesn’t make us worthy. Being stretched too thin doesn’t mean we’re doing life “right.” Full-time travel has forced us to get clear on what truly matters, and the reality is—we don’t have to justify saying no.

We don’t say no because we’re too busy. We say no because we value our time, our peace, and our ability to be present.

3. Your Dream Life is a Distraction. Build a Great Day—Then Repeat It.

It’s easy to think that one day, everything will finally fall into place. That once we have the perfect setup, the dream destinations, the best version of ourselves, then we’ll be happy.

But happiness isn’t found in someday. It’s found in today.

The best life isn’t built on fantasies—it’s built on small, intentional days that we actually love living.

For us, that means choosing to slow down. It means making space for spontaneous stops, for slow mornings, for the things that make us feel good now, not just in the future. A great life is just a series of great days. And great days aren’t something we wait for—they’re something we create.

4. Your Best Shouldn’t Come at the Cost of Your Health

We live in a world that glorifies pushing through. But what if our best isn’t measured by how much we accomplish?

What if our best is what we can do while still taking care of ourselves?

Traveling full-time has taught us that there’s always more to see, more to do, more to experience. But none of it is worth it if we’re running on empty. We don’t have to earn rest. We don’t have to prove our worth by exhausting ourselves. Our best isn’t what we can accomplish by ignoring our needs—it’s what we can do while honoring them.

5. Instead of Asking “What is My Purpose?” Ask “What Makes Me Feel Alive Right Now?”

I think we’ve all felt the weight of this question: What am I supposed to be doing with my life? It can feel huge, overwhelming, like we’re failing if we don’t have a clear answer.

But what if the question isn’t about finding one singular purpose?

Instead, what if we just asked: What makes me feel alive today?

For us, that answer changes. Some days, it’s sitting by a campfire, completely disconnected. Other days, it’s a long hike, a great conversation, or even just the quiet joy of making pancakes in our tiny trailer kitchen.

When we stop trying to define our purpose as one big thing and instead focus on what lights us up right now, life feels a lot less pressured and a lot more full.

What This Means for You

Whether you’re on the road, dreaming of it, or just trying to live a life that feels real, self-worth isn’t something you chase—it’s something you build.

• Notice your glimmers.
• Say no when you need to.
• Focus on making today great, instead of waiting for “someday.”
• Redefine your best as something that includes rest.
• Follow what makes you feel alive, not what makes sense on paper.

At the end of the day, self-worth isn’t about doing more or being more. It’s about accepting yourself where you are—and choosing to create a life that feels good, one day at a time. Jess uses her weighted blanket to help her reset after a particularly stressful day, and Maddy often uses a journal to help her reflect and process the events from a stressful day!

And if you’re on this journey with us, know this: You are already enough. Right here, right now. No matter where you are on the map.

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Make Space for Your Glimmers

Noticing the small moments of joy takes intention. One way to cultivate that habit is by taking a few moments each day to reflect. A simple gratitude or mindfulness journal can help you focus on what makes you feel alive today—rather than chasing an idea of “someday.”

If you’re looking for an easy way to build this practice, I highly recommend this nature reflection journal. It’s designed to help you start and end your day with simple prompts that reinforce gratitude and self-reflection.

And if self-care and relaxation are what you need, setting up a calming space can make all the difference. Something as simple as this essential oil for a diffuser can turn your space—whether it’s a house, RV, or campsite—into a peaceful retreat.

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